There’s no crying in baseball – that’s what Tom Hanks’ Jimmy Dugan told one of the Rockford Peaches in a “League of Their Own.”
I don’t know that there’s crying in any sport unless there’s an injury, but football seems to bring about the most angst.
At least growing up in my house it did.
My grandfather was a die-hard Georgia fan and by die-hard, I mean that man nearly died at a dang Georgia game.
Granny and I had dropped him and my uncle Bobby off at the game and commenced to spend the afternoon in Athens, shopping at the shoe store and Rose’s, and the old gal even took me to lunch.
It was a big, big day for us and she was in a fairly good mood.
Until we went to pick up Pop and Bobby.
My uncle was helping my grandfather, who was hobbling, towards the car.
“What is wrong?” my grandmother demanded.
My uncle shook his head at her. He has always been the one who tried to make all these hot-tempered people he was surrounded by calm down; walking on water would probably be easier.
“Robert! What is wrong with you?” Granny’s reaction for anything was increasing her verbal volume. I am sure someone named Robert in South Carolina heard her.
“Mama, he got so upset when Georgia lost, I think he choked on his hot dog and it went down the wrong way. Just let him get easy, I think it’s stuck in his windpipe.”
Granny didn’t have a lot of sympathy for anyone. She looked at my grandfather’s ashen face and said, “I can’t believe you ‘bout choked to death on a dang hot dog because Georgia lost. It’s a game, Bob. A game. And what are you doing eat a hot dog? I thought the doctor told you to lay off them things.”
Granny continued her tirade all the way home as I sat in the backseat bouncing with my red and black paper pom-poms they always faithfully got me. There was no way my chubby and uncoordinated self would ever be a cheer leader, but they still gave me hope with those paper poms.
But Pop didn’t choke on a hot dog.
Pop had a heart attack.
A pretty massive heart attack.
But, he was also so stubborn he refused to go to the hospital until my Mama got home from work that night around midnight, stating firmly he was not leaving until he knew she was safe.
“You are as stubborn as a mule,” Granny said to him. Remember – she lacked sympathy at times.
“You need to get to the hospital before you die.”
“I ain’t gonna die,” he said. “I still got to get some roofs done before Christmas.”
Pop didn’t get those roofs done. He spent about a week in the hospital before he came home and when his doctor finally released him, he had stern orders: no more Georgia games.
My uncle called and cancelled their annual tickets for the next season before Pop got home.
“I haven’t smoked in years, I quit drinking decades ago and now this? No more football? What’s left for me to live for?” my grandfather wanted to know.
“Me?” I asked, sheepishly. “Granny? Mama? Bobby? Aren’t we more important than a football game?”
The thought of just having us did not comfort him. Heck, it may have made him feel worse – we’re a curious bunch of folks.
But he had been forbidden to darken Sanford stadium ever again. Doctors orders.
“Was it because it was Tech?” I whispered to my uncle.
He nodded. “That rivalry always gets him riled up. But he would have gotten pretty upset if it had been another team he hated.”
I was fascinated.
How can you hate a football team, especially when you don’t even know the people?
It was a bunch of grown men wearing tight britches while running after a ball. My son would later declare at the ripe old age of 5 that those people did not know how to share and say it was a pointless game.
“Well, he doesn’t seem to mind Alabama. If anything, he seems to respect them. He mainly hates Tech when they play UGA; the rest of the time, he will pull for Tech because they are a state team.
“Florida is a big one. He is not a Florida fan. But maybe after Tech, his next big one is Auburn. He is not an Auburn fan at all.”
“Why?” I asked.
My uncle shrugged.
“Why does anyone get all worked up about a football game? It’s just something we like to do.”
My grandfather never went to another live football game again, but I saw him having grown up big man hissy fits over games in the den. The kind of fits that made the house shake and scared the cat.
And in case you didn’t know, the top ranked Georgia fell to Auburn this Saturday.
I was on the edge of my seat during the game – a game, mind you, I don’t really care about.
I may have even had a grown up big girl hissy fit, complete with the loud swearing. I did scare the pittie though, but she’s scared of her own shadow.
“Mama, are you OK?” Cole asked.
“You don’t look like it.”
I was fine.
But somewhere, outside of Athens, I am sure my grandfather was rolling over in his grave.